First and foremost, my most heartfelt apologies for this dry spell in tales from the other side of the globe. For a while, it was genuine. By that, I mean wordpress was blocked entirely by the Thai government. However, this only accounts for something like seven or eight days, and my intermittent laziness sprinkled with adventure (so it can be called) covers the rest.
“There you see her
Sitting there across the way
She don’t got a lot to say
But there’s something about her…”
This familiar Disney song (I can bet at least half of you are now singing it in your head) pretty much describes me. Or I hope it does. See, I’m much like Ariel during the school day–my voice, stolen, by the Bilingual Witch, the metaphor who stands in my way of triumphant victory over the Thai language. Most of the time, I hope that someone sees a personality slipping through the silent exterior. (I don’t need to be kissed, though.)
I also feel like Ariel because I am being constantly crushed and dragged by gallons and gallons of water. Also known as Thai. This is, in fact, how one inbound from Mexico described the first couple months of her exchange. (Fortunately, she could speak so fluently I didn’t realize she was an inbound. So, this is encouraging to a degree.) She explained it was not like being overwhelmed, it was like drowning. Gasping for air and coming up with water. (That last bit was me, elaborating. Drowning is serious business.)
I am Ariel, and I don’t breathe the water yet.
This doesn’t prevent me from being in at least fifty people’s cellphones, as .jpg files. My favorite was the effeminate boy who had to retake the picture three times because his hair wasn’t falling right in any of them. He wears bright pink lip tint and is fun and social-therefore talks to me.
When I get back from Bangkok (I’m going to my host brother’s graduation ceremony, and no, I’ve never met him) in a couple of days, there will be a lot of important changes on this website, and I’ll start promoting it to Rotarians a little more. Don’t worry. This won’t change that much. But it’s gonna be cool, guys.
Other things going on:
What’s a girl to do when she’s in Thailand and finds herself passingly fluent in Japanese and starting to really like Korean music? (Oh well, tons of people do here. Super Junior, anyone?) My fortune will be spent in Asian CDs, seeing as I actually can’t buy those in America. Goodness knows I try desperately to search the world music section at each and every Borders we shop at, but alas, the best I’ve done is find an Utada Hikaru CD in Virgin Megastore. I should’ve gotten that one, actually. It’s really good (but then again, I did have it on my computer, so…yay I didn’t waste the money?) Each CD, imports at least, are about 9 dollars. Others are around 4 or 5. It’s beautiful…so much so, I throw little dance parties when I find one of my favorite artists among the rack.
Arashi! Ice Saranyu! Rain! (I didn’t buy that one, for the sake of Arashi. But man, am I just about to run back there and pick it back up. Stop me. It’s 400 baht. 12 bucks. Yikesabee. I’m going to just die if I find a KAT TUN CD, or a Nicholas Teo–OH! I should look. I MUST LOOK.)
Also, I bought my very first honestly eighties piece of fashion. Wearing it, if I don’t look so much like my mother in high school it hurts, then it’s only because my hair isn’t blonde enough. You know, that blinding shade that just leapt right out of the bottle like sunbeams? …I like the shirt. I’m going to wear it with leggings and ballet flats.
Slowly I realize there isn’t much of cultural importance here, or at least not nicely worded cultural importance. I apologize for the materialism and such…but I really can’t help myself. Asian pop culture is so much more fun than American pop culture. Americans, funnily enough, take themselves too seriously, at least compared to Thais. Americans shout about bad service and “I’m not paying, this is cold! …ish.” Thais slowly sip on Pepsi, and after astronomical amounts of time, slowly wonder if maybe they’ve been forgotten and need to reorder. (After which the order will be brought out, food will be eaten, and people will be paid for said food.) It makes me nervous, as the American I most definitely am–nothing like world travel to confirm your own cultural identity, just before changing it irrevocably, I suppose–because I imagine that behind the “Mai ben rai” they’re really seething, like a boiling pot with the lid melded on, and fear shards when it’s gone too far.
So that’s what I’m concerned with. The Thai language, making friends, finding beloved music, and exploding Thais.

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September 5, 2007 at 9:53 am
heartinthailand
Thanks for updating! I’ll try to let people know. I’m excited…are you keeping the changes a secret?
September 7, 2007 at 5:44 pm
Aunt Pat
Glad you’re back, Hol. I was missing the pithy comments and colorful phrases. Not to mention the “Hollyness” of it all. Yet, I hope we will still know you when you return- maybe you should try bleach blonde with your “eighties” shirt. I’ll let you know if I see your mother in you!!
September 8, 2007 at 7:45 pm
heartinthailand
Ignore your aunt…bleach blonde in highly overrated.
September 8, 2007 at 8:15 pm
Lila
i want to request a picture of ‘bright pink lip tint boy’. nothing would make me happier.
September 9, 2007 at 10:47 pm
subtlelikeatank
I’m glad you’re still alive. I thought you might…I don’t know, have gotten lost or swallowed by language or just forgotten about me.
Go check your facebook. I invited you to something. Don’t worry, you can attend it in Thailand.
I’m also printing out a picture of you and bringing it to my (possibly occuring) birthday festivities because it won’t be the same if you’re not there.
September 10, 2007 at 2:55 pm
Lila
p.s. better yet, bring ‘bight pink lip tint boy’ back with you.
September 11, 2007 at 12:48 am
Holly
The changes are all Rotary, Momma, so don’t get too jazzed. Like I said, they’re not going to really affect the bulk part of this for you guys.
I’m actually wearing my ultra long eighties shirt with gray leggings right now. I have leg warmers (don’t make me get my leg warmers! You won’t like me when I’ve got my leg warmers.) even. They don’t match, though. Royal blue with gold and black baubles at the neck, dark grey leggings, and turquoise and white striped leg warmers? I cringe at the thought. I am also thinking of getting pictures.
Bleach blonde? Overrated? Never. (No, really, never ever ever, I can’t do that to my poor head…but can I straighten it -waaa- ?)
I’m attending, Becca. I also got all misty and nostalgic when I was reading the quote. I could literally hear them saying it, and I could see the camera shots and everything. It’s almost sad. Can I Apparate to your birthday?
Sorry, Harry Potter is consuming my soul. Like a dementor. Someone stop me.
LILA! Where have you been? My goodness, I miss you. So “bright pink lip tint boy” will be folded neatly with his silver jelly slip ons into my larger pink suitcase (I think he’ll like the luggage). (I’ll do my best to nab a picture…he loves them, naturally, so it shouldn’t be hard.)
<3